我爱的女孩子不稳定

唉！
在排除你所说的不是出差的话。不稳定，是指没有安全感或者是你性格轻佻花心！如果不是这两点，多半是一句随意话或者是埋怨话，你看看你与他朋友相差的是什么？就能猜出她的意思！

证明你爱她？
不要做一些傻事。
爱，不是一下子说做就做的！
爱，是细工慢火烈煎出来的。

平时对她细心一些，关怀一些，体贴一些。举个例子：下雨，能有意地把伞靠向她那边，睡觉时候多护着她一些，吃饭时候多依着她口味一些，她发脾气时多忍一些，很多事情都是生活中见真功的。

不是一下子就说爱就爱，就算你拿了九百九十九朵玫瑰，那他也是感动这一刻。过后，恢复原状。个人建议：你把你平时做的不好，没有关心她的地方，全都例成一清单，强制自己做，天天看天天做，然后形成一种习惯，以后就会举手投足之间下意识地去做这些体贴她的事情。可能男人粗神经吧，这是我以前的方法。

不要担心她感觉不出来。女人是感性动物，用心去体会世界，不是我们男人用脑子去分析世界的。只要你对她好，她会感受得到！

你有钱吗（房子，车子）
你有一份稳定的工作吗？（所谓稳定的工作就是挣钱多，有发展的前途，并且能在家呆的时间也长）
你为人老实吗（不花心，对爱情专一，会体贴人）
你要能有以上几点，她要再说你不稳定，那就是她的问题

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告诉你我也是个不稳定的女孩子，但是我知道什么在我的饿心里最重要，我也明白自己不对，只是我的爱不轻易表白，我只需要有人在我身边一直陪着我，虽然我爱玩，但是，我有分寸