口语中所说的“紧张”,中文的理解是指男女彼此间的“重视”。既然并非“担心”英文就不能用worry 这个词来替换。这句的翻译我会如此阐释:Why aren't you here when I begin to take you seriously?
Why aren't you here with me when I'm worrying about you?
Why you're not here when I worry about you