1、一个人自以为刻骨铭心的回忆,别人早已已经忘记了。
2、最悲哀的一种分手,不是双方轰轰烈烈地吵一场,不是大打出手,不是一方移情别恋,也不是大家不能结合,最悲哀的分手是无声无息地分手。
3、爱可以另一个原本高尚的人堕落,也可以让一个堕落的人变得高尚。
4、岁月流逝,坟墓只是一个关口
有一天,我们都会相叙
我想你明白,最美好的爱,是成全,成全去寻找你的快乐......
5、琐碎的生活,也是爱情的一部分。
6、男人知道你爱他就不会开口说爱你了,因为他处于上风。男人只有自信心不够的时候,才会对女人说“我爱你”
7、没有枯涩的泪水,也没有遗憾,离去的人根本不知道那即将是一场告别。带着微笑远离,是最幸福的一种离别。所有的不舍,留给等待的那个人。一天将尽,离别之后,明日我们还会相见吗?明日,也许是天涯之遥。
8、不忠的人是可怜的,他们不是故意不忠,他们是害怕寂寞。要很多很多的爱才可以一个人对另一个人忠贞。
9、爱情,有时候,是一件令人沉沦的事,所谓理智和决心,不过是可笑的自我安慰的话。
10、但你爱一个人的时候,连折磨也是一种幸福最初的恋爱是最好的,后来才会变坏。不要挥霍爱情,爱是会耗尽的。
11、我们都太爱自己了,两个太爱自己的人,是没法长相厮守的。当我们顿悟了自己的自私,在以后的日子里,也只能够爱另一个人爱得好点。
12、女人恒久地记住一个男人,也许是因为一首歌,一支舞,一个承诺。男人恒久地记住一个女人,不会是因为一首歌,一支舞,更不会是一个承诺。
13、男女之间,往往不是赏赐便是惩罚。你感谢上帝让你遇到这个人,同时,你又会怀疑上帝便是派这个人来惩罚你的。为什么只有他可以让你快乐, 也给你痛苦,为什么任性的你偏偏愿意为他改变?为什么天不怕,地不怕的你,却偏偏怕他?
同一个人,既是赏赐,也是惩罚?
14、人不是因为遇到一个人而改变自己,而是你内在很想改变,你会注意到那个可以改变你的人,只有在那一刻,你的耳朵才能够听到远方的呼唤。无法从焚心般的欲望解脱出来,便无法得到内心的喜悦和平静。
15、以前的人,为了一段感情不离别,付上很多的代价,譬如放弃自己的理想,放弃机会。现在的人,却可以为这些而放弃异端感情。离别,只是为了追寻更好的东西。
16、叶散的时候,你明白欢聚
花谢的时候,你明白青春
17、沉默是无法掩饰的失落
18、唯一可以强横地霸占一个男人的回忆的,就是活得更好。
19、想把一个男人留在身边,就要让他知道,你随时可以离开他。
20、也许每一个女人都希望生命中有一个杨弘念,一个徐文治。一个是无法触摸的男人,一个脚踏实地。一个被你伤害,为你受苦。另一个让你伤心。一个只适宜作情人,另一个却可以长相厮守。一个是火,燃烧生命,一个是水,滋养生命。女人可以没有火,却不能没有水。
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21、为什么我们总是不懂得珍惜眼前人?在未来预知的重逢里,我们以为总会重逢,总有缘再会,总以为有机会说一声对不起,却从没有想过每一次挥手道别都可能是诀别,每一声叹息,都可能是人间最后的一声叹息。
22、离别与重逢,是人生不停上演的戏,习惯了,也就不再悲怆。
23、爱情何尝不是贪婪与恐惧的平衡?愈想占有,愈容易失去。爱是尽量占有和尽量避免失去之间的平衡。
24、失望,有时也是一种幸福,因为有所期待,所以才会失望,因为有爱,才会有期待,所以纵使失望,也是一种幸福,虽然这种幸福有点痛。
25、不望着会令你流泪的东西,那是唯一可以不流泪的方法
26,他有什麽好处我不知道,但是他有一个很大的缺点...我是知道的, 他不爱我,这个缺点还不够大吗?
27.爱情本来并不复杂,来来去去不过三个字,不是我爱你,我恨你,便是算了吧,对不起。
28.我们微笑着说 我们 停留在 时光的 原处 其实 早已被洪流 无声地 卷走
29.闭上眼睛才能看见最干净的世界。
30.拉着你的手,无论是在哪裏,我都感觉是在朝天堂奔跑。
31.你给我一滴眼泪,我就看到了你心中全部的海洋。
32.那些刻在椅子背后的爱情,会不会像水泥上的花朵,开出没有风的,寂寞的森林 。
33.本以为念念不忘的东西却在我们念念不忘的过程中被遗忘 。
1.记住该记住的,忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的,接受不能改变的
Remember what should be remembered, and forget what should be forgotten.Alter what is changeable, and accept what is mutable.
2.能冲刷一切的除了眼泪,就是时间,以时间来推移感情,时间越长,冲突越淡,仿佛不断稀释的茶
Apart from tears, only time could wear everything away. While feeling is being processed by time, conflicts would be reconciled as time goes by, just like a cup of tea that is being continuously diluted.
3.怨言是上天得至人类最大的供物,也是人类祷告中最真诚的部分
Complaints are the greatest offerings that God obtains from human beings, as well as the most faithful prayers human beings might utter to God.
4.智慧的代价是矛盾。这是人生对人生观开的玩笑。
Wisdom appears in contradiction to itself, which is a trick life plays on philosophy of life.
5.世上的姑娘总以为自己是骄傲的公主(除了少数极丑和少数极聪明的姑娘例外)
Girls always look on themselves as proud princesses, with the exception of a small number of either extremely ugly or exceedingly smart ones.
6.如果敌人让你生气,那说明你还没有胜他的把握
It can be inferred that you lack confidence in a victory over your rivals from the fact that you’re irritable against them.
7.如果朋友让你生气,那说明你仍然在意他的友情
From that you would get angry with your friends, we can conclude you sitll care about the friendship between you.
8.令狐冲说“有些事情本身我们无法控制,只好控制自己。” 可是,他算什么!!
“ Something is out of our control, so we have to command ourselves.“ said Linghu Chong, a known character in a Chinese novel about persons adept in martial arts(武侠小说?). Who is, however, ***ing he?
9.我不知道我现在做的哪些是对的,那些是错的,而当我终于老死的时候我才知道这些。所以我现在所能做的就是尽力做好每一件事,然后等待着老死。
Only till my natural death.could I tell which of what I have been doing is right or wrong, so now I have to try to do well in everything, and then wait to die a natural death.
10.也许有些人很可恶,有些人很卑鄙。而当我设身为他想象的时候,我才知道:他比我还可怜。所以请原谅所有你见过的人,好人或者坏人
Some may be wicked, and some may be despicable. Only when I put myself in their position did I know they are more miserable than I. So forgive all that you have met, no matter what kind of persons they are.
11.鱼对水说你看不到我的眼泪,因为我在水里.水说我能感觉到你的眼泪,因为你在我心里。
“You couldn’t see my tears cause I am in the water.“ Fish said to water.
“But I could feel your tears cause you are in me.“ Answered water.
12.快乐要有悲伤作陪,雨过应该就有天晴。如果雨后还是雨,如果忧伤之后还是忧伤.请让我们从容面对这离别之后的离别。 微笑地去寻找一个不可能出现的你!
Happiness is accompanied by sorrow, and it would turn sunny after rain as well. If rain remains after rain and sorrow remains after sorrow, please take those farewells easy, and turn to smilingly look for yourself who is never to appear.
13.死亡教会人一切,如同考试之后公布的结果??虽然恍然大悟,但为时晚矣!
Like the outcome after an exam, death makes us aware of anything, That is, it’s too late to take a tumble.
14.你出生的时候,你哭着,周围的人笑着;你逝去的时候,你笑着,而周围的人在哭!
When you were born, you’re crying but lookers-on were smiling. When you are passing away, you’re smiling but lookers-on are crying.
15.男人在结婚前觉得适合自己的女人很少,结婚后觉得适合自己的女人很多
Man might think that few women fit him before his marriage, and contrarily when they get married.
16.于千万人之中,遇见你所遇见的人;于千万年之中,时间的无涯荒野里,没有早一步,也没有晚一步,刚巧赶上了
Among thousands of people, you meet those you’ve met. Through thousands of years, with the boundlessness of time, you happen to meet them, neither earlier nor a bit too late.
17.每个人都有潜在的能量,只是很容易:被习惯所掩盖,被时间所迷离,被惰性所消磨.
Everyone has his inherent ability( power or capacity?) which is easily concealed by habbits, blurred by time, and eroded by laziness( or inertia?).
18.人生短短几十年,不要给自己留下了什么遗憾,想笑就笑,想哭就哭,该爱的时候就去爱,无谓压抑自己
Be sure that you have never had any regrets in your life which only lasts for a few decades. Laugh or cry as you like, and it‘s meaningless to oppress yourself.
19.《和平年代》里的话:当幻想和现实面对时,总是很痛苦的。要么你被痛苦击倒,要么你把痛苦踩在脚下
While our dream is confronted with the reality, you always feel painful. Just trample on the pain, or you‘ll be beat down by it.
20.真正的爱情是不讲究热闹不讲究排场不讲究繁华更不讲究嚎头的
A true love is what doesn‘t strive for busyness, for extravagance, for luxury, and moreover for hokum.
21.生命中,不断地有人离开或进入。于是,看见的,看不见了;记住的,遗忘了。生命中,不断地有得到和失落。于是,看不见的,看见了;遗忘的,记住了。 然而,看不见的,是不是就等于不存在?记住的,是不是永远不会消失?
There is someone that is coming or passing away in your life around the clock, so you may lose sight of those seen, and forget those remembered. There is gain and loss in your life, so you may catch sight of those unseen, and remember those forgotten. Nevertheless, doesn‘t the unseen exist for sure? Will the remembered remain for ever?
22.我们确实活得艰难,一要承受种种外部的压力,更要面对自己内心的困惑。在苦苦挣扎中,如果有人向你投以理解的目光,你会感到一种生命的暖意,或许仅有短暂的一瞥,就足以使我感奋不已。
It‘s true that we have been leading a difficult life, for we need not only to be under various external pressures, but also to be in the face of internal perplexities.You would be affected by the warmth of life if someone gives you a understanding look during your bitter struggle.Even a mere glance would make you moved and inpired.
23.我不去想是否能够成功,既然选择了远方,便只顾风雨兼程;我不去想,身后会不会袭来寒风冷雨,既然目标是地平线,留给世界的只能是背影.
I wouldn‘t care success or failure, for I will only struggle ahead as long as I have been destined to the distance. I wouldn‘t care the difficulties around, for what I can leave on the earth is only their view of my back since I have been marching toward the horizontal.
24.后悔是一种耗费精神的情绪.后悔是比损失更大的损失,比错误更大的错误.所以不要后悔
Pentinece is something that enervates our spirit, causing a greater loss than loss itself and making a bigger mistake than mistake itself, so never regret.
去理解别人,爱惜别人,比找一个理解我,爱惜我的人要快乐的多!
为了彼岸的花,蝴蝶可以飞过沧海.
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